Bollywood Actor Irrfan Khan is not anymore with us. He passed away at the age of just 53, was battling with a neuroendocrine tumor. Irrfan Khan is survived by his wife Sutapa Sikdar and his two sons Babil and Ayaan. Irrfan Khan was one of the finest and versatile actors in the Bollywood industry. Two days after his death, his wife Sutapa Sikdar paid tribute to her late husband in a heartfelt letter.
Sutapa Sikdar in her heartwrenching yet hopeful letter wrote,
“How can I write this as a family statement when the whole world is taking it as a personal loss? How can I begin to feel alone when millions are grieving with us at the moment? I want to assure everyone that this is not a loss, it is a gain. It’s a gain of the things he taught us, and now we shall finally begin to truly implement it and evolve. Yet I want to try to fill in the things that people don’t already know. It’s unbelievable for us but I would put it in Irrfan’s words, “it’s magical” whether he is there or not there, and that’s what he loved, he never loved one-dimensional reality. The only thing I have a grudge against him is; he has spoiled me for life. His strive for perfection doesn’t let me settle for ordinary in anything. There was a rhythm that he always saw in everything, even in cacophony and chaos, so I have learned to sing and dance to the music of that rhythm, even with my tone-deaf voice and two left feet.”
She added,
“Funnily, our life was a masterclass in acting, so when the dramatic entry of the “uninvited guests” happened, I had by then learned, to see harmony in the cacophony. The doctor’s reports were like scripts that I wanted to perfect, so I never miss any detail that he sought for in his performance. We met some amazing people in this journey and the list is endless, but there are some whom I have to mention, our oncologist Dr. Nitesh Rohtogi (Max hospital Saket) who held our hand in the beginning, Dr. Dan Krell (UK), Dr. Shidravi (UK), my heartbeat and my lantern in the dark Dr. Sevanti Limaye (Kokilaben hospital). It’s difficult to explain what a wondrous, beautiful, overwhelming, painful, and exciting this journey has been. I find this 2 and 1/2 years to have been an interlude, which had its beginning, middle, and culmination with Irrfan helming the role of the orchestra conductor, separate from the 35 years of our companionship, ours was not a marriage, it was a union.”
She continued and talked about her children and Irrfan,
I see my little family, in a boat, with both my sons Babil and Ayaan, paddling it forward, with Irrfan guiding them “wahan nahi, yahan se modo” but since life is not cinema and there are no retakes, I sincerely wish my children sail this boat safely with their father’s guidance in mind and rockabye through the storm. I asked my children, if possible, they could sum up a lesson taught by their father that has been important to them; Babil: ‘Learn to surrender to the dance of uncertainty and trust your faith in the universe”. Ayaan: “Learn to control your mind and to not let it control you.”
Sutapa Sikdar concluded,
“Tears will flow as we will plant a raat ki rani tree, his favourite, to the place where you have put him to rest after a victorious journey. It takes time but it will bloom and the fragrance will spread and touch all the souls whom I won’t call them fans but family for years to come.
Irrfan Khan was unable to promote his last movie Angrezi Medium because of the disease. The way he delivers the dialogues was amazing. You can check out some amazing dialogues by Irrfan Khan. He was awarded the prestigious honor Padma Shree in the year 2011. May your soul rest in peace Irrfan.
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